mature freedom

Today’s gospel passage is not about a prodigal son, nor even about two dysfunctional sons. Certainly there was a prodigal and there were two immature and sad sons, but this wonderful gospel story is really about a father who knows how to love.

I had started to write my own reflection on this then recalled that a few years ago (14 March 2010) Pope Benedict explained the parable better than anyone I have ever heard or read reflecting on this great story.

So I’m happy to let Benedict provide today’s food for our faith:

Pope emeritus Benedict reflects:

“This passage of St Luke constitutes one of the peaks of spirituality and literature of all time. Indeed, what would our culture, art and more generally our civilisation be without this revelation of a God the Father so full of mercy?

It never fails to move us and every time we hear or read it, it can suggest to us ever new meanings. Above all, this Gospel text has the power of speaking to us of God, of enabling us to know his Face and, better still, his Heart.

After Jesus has told us of the merciful Father, things are no longer as they were before. We now know God; he is our Father who out of love created us to be free and endowed us with a conscience, who suffers when we get lost and rejoices when we return.

For this reason, our relationship with him is built up through events, just as it happens for every child with his parents: at first he depends on them, then he asserts his autonomy; and, in the end if he develops well he reaches a mature relationship based on gratitude and authentic love.

In these stages we can also identify moments along the person’s journey in their relationship with God. There can be a phase that resembles childhood: religion prompted by need, by dependence. As a person grows up and becomes emancipated, they wants to liberate themselves from this submission and become free and adult, able to organise themselves and make their own decisions, even thinking they can do without God. Precisely this stage is delicate and can lead to atheism, yet even this frequently conceals the need to discover God’s true Face. Fortunately for us, God never fails in his faithfulness and even if we distance ourselves and get lost he continues to follow us with his love, forgiving our errors and speaking to our conscience from within in order to call us back to him.

In this parable the sons behave in opposite ways: the younger son leaves home and sinks ever lower whereas the elder son stays at home, but he too has an immature relationship with the Father. In fact, when his brother comes back, the elder brother does not rejoice like the Father; on the contrary he becomes angry and refuses to enter the house.

The two sons represent two immature ways of relating to God: rebellion and childish obedience. Both these forms are surmounted through the experience of mercy. Only by experiencing forgiveness, by recognising one is loved with a freely given love a love greater than our wretchedness but also than our own merit do we at last enter into a truly filial and free relationship with God.

An Invitation:

  • Set a few minutes today to prayerfully re-read Pope Benedict’s reflection allowing yourself to be moved in mind and heart as he invites us to appreciate the real meaning of this often misunderstood story.
  • You can read today’s scriptures at this link.
  • Great to have your comments, Thanks to those who share their own reflections. This is a great inspiration for all of us.
7 Responses to "mature freedom"
  1. This merciful reflection today teaches us what it means to be a Christian … develops our self-awareness … and moves our mind and heart to be compassionate and kind.
    Mercy matters because it transforms us from the inside out, it is like the air we breathe in.
    Thank you for helping us understand the face of mercy. +

  2. Thank you sharing this reflection. It has me thinking of the times I have grown in my faith and reflecting on rebellion the growth that follows when one is forgiven. What a help this will be for anyone contemplating returning on the their church.

  3. Beautiful, tears streaming from my eyes assures me how well I understand and believe this truth, indeed our Church is so rich in its teaching.
    To whom would I go?

  4. Something that struck me today was how the youngest son ASKED, he ASKED for his inheritance, went away as Pope Benedict said out of a place of rebellion and trying to be autonomous. Then when he failed and needed his Father’s help, he ASKED for forgiveness.
    Which was given freely and without hesitation.
    Whereas the older son stayed with the Father out of duty, need for security. He never thought/dared to ask for anything – (you never even Offered me so much as a kid).
    This follows on from your reflection yesterday Fr John when you invited us to ask for a miracle.
    I must never be afraid to ask or think that I am not worthy of asking, For My Father in Heaven will always give me good gifts if I ask for them.
    Thank you again for these reflections

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