a no & a yes

Dec 7, 2019

Saturday is the day of each week traditionally dedicated to Mary and today therefore gives us a chance to prepare for the feast of the Immaculate Conception of Mary, usually December 8 but this year is overtaken by the Second Sunday of Advent and will be celebrated on Monday.

The Immaculate Conception is often confused with the Virgin birth of Jesus. It’s important to understand the difference and Pope Francis explains the Immaculate Conception well:

“The Gospel of St Luke presents us with Mary, a girl from Nazareth, a small town in Galilee, in the outskirts of the Roman Empire and on the outskirts of Israel as well. A village. Yet the Lord’s gaze rested on her, on this little girl from that distant village, on the one he had chosen to be the mother of his Son. In view of this motherhood, Mary was preserved from original sin, from that fracture in communion with God, with others and with creation, which deeply wounds every human being. But this fracture was healed in advance in the Mother of the One who came to free us from the slavery of sin. The Immaculata was written in God’s design; she is the fruit of God’s love that saves the world.”

Without this intervention of God to free Mary from the effects of Original Sin, she would have suffered the same inclination to sin that is ours before we fruitfully receive the Sacrament of Baptism (which of course did not exist before Jesus which is why God had to act directly with Mary).

The root of the problem of evil in the world (as a consequence of Original Sin) is found in the account of Adam and Eve in the opening chapters of Genesis when sin entered the world through humans’ rejection of God’s life. Once the beauty of human freedom in uncontaminated relationship with God had been disrupted by the first experience of sin, it became more difficult for us to live in constant harmony with God. We all know what this is like from our own experience in human relationships. Once we say one “no” we open a door which sets a pattern that easily becomes a habit and we then struggle to give a whole-hearted “yes.”

The Old Testament begins with a rejection of God and Adam’s first response when he meets God after his “no” is to hide. This is our problem too. We forget that God’s mercy and love is given to us anew every moment. But our shame and guilt means we foolishly keep our distance from the love we most deeply and desperately seek.

The New Testament begins with a “YES.” This new era is ours when we allow the grace given in baptism to take root and grow to maturity within us. Without this practice of the presence of Jesus, baptismal grace (while still present) struggles to bear fruit.

An Invitation:

  • When the angel Gabriel brought to Mary the news that God was calling her to be the mother of his Son, did she discern whether or not to accept this? The answer is no. The one who desires to live in relationship with Jesus will not wonder whether or not to do God’s will once we know it. Instead the discerning is simply whether or not this is God who is asking. If it is God who is asking, we simply answer “yes.”
  • When the angel left Mary, the challenges and problems of this new era of her life had just begun. She then had to explain to her parents that she was pregnant telling them that they should be delighted because the father was the Holy Spirit.  It’s helpful for us to remember this, since saying yes to God’s will does not mean that everything is immediately easy. Instead a yes to God is a step, and these steps often mean letting go of our  attachments, compulsions and fears. It’s not easy, but in the depth of our being we know that a yes to God is the wisest and most life-giving decision of all.


  1. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners.
    Congratulations 33 years of devoted service

  2. Help me Father to see each time you require a yes from me and give me the generosity of heart to carry out your will.

  3. A Yes to God is infinite and provides all the strength and courage we require to do His work in His name.

    So many people are seduced by false promises of salvation in a material world imbued with temptation, easy options and limitless opportunities for self gratification.

    Your thoughts today Father help us to reflect on the courage of Mary who never faltered and stood strong in her faith and trust in our Lord. It is her courage that inspires us to be more; to be courageous; to be God’s children, secure in his light and his love.

    Yes, if a small girl from Nazareth, a small town in Galilee, in the outskirts of the Roman Empire and on the outskirts of Israel can show such faith and such courage, then so can we.

    And No, we will not miss the opportunity to live in relationship with Jesus and to do God’s will, even if the challenge takes all our strength and moral courage.

    Thank you for your courage and your love Father.

    Amen – I believe and I am saved.

  4. May I through Mary’s example and love be aware even in the small and subtle of the lord asking me for a yes

  5. Thank you, Fr John, for explaining the Immaculate Conception in a way that enables me to understand, accept and be sustains me.

  6. A beautiful reflection. One of my favourite Christmas songs is the thought provoking “Mary did you know?” by Mark Lowry with lines such as ‘…this child that you delivered will soon deliver you.’ That’s the thing – how could she know what was to take place? I’m sure she was thrilled to be asked and after her “Yes” salvation history fused us to that moment. So the song gives me great hope. Like Mary we don’t know, but why would we give a timid ‘Yeah-Nah’ response to discipleship?

    • Another beautiful and inspiring reflection. Thank you Catherine. …..And thank you Mary.


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